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How to Get Over an Ex – 5 Tips to Get Over Your Ex FAST



So you’re probably here because you’re going through a break up and you’re having a hard time figuring out how to get over an ex

That’s definitely understandable. As I’m sure you already know, getting over a break up is hard. You’re probably going through a roller coaster of emotions right now and aren’t quite sure about how to get over a break up. Well, I want you to know that you came to the right place because in this article you’re going to learn 5 tips for how to get over an ex as fast as possible.

But before I share that with you, I want you to know that what you’re feeling right now is completely normal. There are people all around the world that are going through the exact same thing that you’re going through right now. Now, I know that doesn’t actually help you feel any better but I want you to know that you are not alone. Others are going through the exact same thing as you and millions of people have already been through it and survived. So have faith and trust that things will get better with time. Now then, let’s dive into the…

How to Get Over an Ex in 5 Simple Steps

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1) Remember that Getting Over an Ex is a Process

The #1 most important thing to remember is that getting over a break up is a process. The very first step of that process is accepting that it’s over and coming to terms with what happened. After that, you actually have to grieve the loss and purge all the emotions that are bubbling up inside of you. If you truly want to get rid of all the pain you’re feeling, you have to face it and embrace it.

Another thing to remember is that the amount of time it takes to move on after a break up is completely dependent on the person and their ability to let go. Generally speaking, the longer you were in a relationship, the harder it is to move on. However, if you follow the 3 tips I share below, you’ll have a solid “roadmap” for getting over your ex as fast as possible.

2) Avoid Being Alone

After a break up, a lot of people just want to be left alone. That is perfectly fine in the beginning, but the more time you spend alone, the more depressed you’re going to feel bout your situation. Instead, choose to hang out with friends, loved ones, and anyone who brings positivity and joy in your life. The sooner you start socializing with other people the easier you will find it will be to get over your ex.

2) Get Rid of All Their Stuff

Having their things around is just going to remind you of them even more, which will make it even harder for you to get over your ex. You have to let go of all this stuff in order to move on with your life. Pack all of  their things and either give them back or place them somewhere that you will not be able to see them on a daily basis. Allow this to be a therapeutic experience that marks the end of a chapter in your life. Let this be an act of closure. Not only will it will help you come to terms with what happened but not having their things around will definitely help you heal a lot faster too.

3) Get Over Your Ex by Focusing on Yourself

The positive thing about breaking up is the freedom that comes along with it. You are no longer obligated to spend every waking minute of your free time with your that person. So use it as an opportunity to get in some quality time for yourself. Think of something you’ve always wanted to do but have never had the opportunity to do and go out and do it. Use this time to explore new interests. Take on a new hobby. Do something that you enjoy. Have fun. This will help you realize that you don’t need your ex to be happy. Life does go on and you can be happy without your ex, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.

4) Remember that Life Goes On

Losing the person you love is never easy but it is possible to get over a break up in a healthy manner. Remember, it’s okay to be upset at first and it’s okay to grieve, just don’t let the grief consume you. If I can sum up what I learned about life in just 3 words, “it goes on”

Remember that nothing in life lasts forever… not even your problems.

Realize that this too shall pass. Be patient and have faith.

5) Stay Positive

Don’t let what happened between you and your ex get you down. I know it hurts to lose the person you love but remember that nothing outside of you has the power to make you feel down about your life. If you’re feeling bad right now, it’s because you’re giving this situation the power to make you feel bad. And guess what? There’s no good reason to justify why you should continue to feel miserable just because your ex left you. Don’t let what happened stop you from enjoying life. Stay positive and optimistic. Do things that you’ve always loved to. Have fun. This will show you that you do NOT need your ex in order to be happy.

Keep your head up, stay positive and focus on doing things that make you happy!

If you’re feeling confused or frustrated about something that happened between you and your ex, click below to get my advice on how to get over an ex based on your situation

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    I am  collins niak  from South Africa i do have a great news, my girlfriend and I are back together again after almost eight months when she ended our relationship, I never thought I would see her again because she was in love with another man, well, she thought she was in love. But now she is back, she told me how much she sorry about everything she did i am so happy that i found a help from wiseindividualspell@gmail.com temple.
     

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  • H13

    Hey DK, sorry to hear about your story, I too got my butt handed to me by a girl I really loved last week, what struck bout your story was your last line, ” you used to be happy and strong”, same here, I used to get over girls in like 2 days, but with this one is different, I am probably in the same place you are, so I am no expert to give advice, but you should think of not talking to either of them, either mail, mess or phone, take them off fb, try to avoid bumping into them, sorry for saying this but I think ur bf of 5 years  probably was bitter than you broke up with him in the first place, u should really not talk to him , its hard believe me I know, but one day at a time, try to keep busy, really busy, if your in college , hang with your friends, everyone I know has been thru at least one major breakup and guess what they all are ok and happy now, it takes time, but life goes on… hope this helps

  • DK

    Thanks alot.. ll try doing these things… :)  m glad i reached out..there is so much of help around… 

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